Shichi-Go-San in Japan

November 15 is Shichi-go-san, a day of prayer for the healthy growth of young children. Shichi-go-san literally means seven, five, three; in most regions around the country, boys and girls aged three, boys aged five, and girls aged seven visit a Shinto shrine with their parents.

Shichi-Go-San is a combination of three distinct customs that developed during the Heian period (794–1185) marking important steps in a child’s growth: at three, boys and girls were allowed to leave behind their short toddler cuts and grow their hair out; at five, boys were considered old enough to wear hakama (trousers worn with a kimono); and girls celebrated turning seven by tying on their first obi (sash).

Modern families celebrate Shichi-Go-San by dressing up and visiting a shrine or temple. Children receive auspicious gifts and families customarily take group photos to commemorate the event. At shrines, families may sit for a special ceremony where a priest reads Shintō prayers and offers blessings, or they may present a small monetary offering and pray their child will enjoy good health.

Traditionally, each year of Shichi-Go-San has its own special attire. Three-year-old girls wear a kimono with shoulder tucks and no obi, donning a vest called a hifu, while their seven-year-old peers dress in a standard kimono and sash. Boys of five wear hakama and a long haori (jacket) that is decoratively printed. Kimono shops and department stores commonly provide costume rentals, allowing families to sidestep the cost of purchasing a full outfit, with many also offering to do a child’s hair and make-up as part of the service. Traditional garb is not required, however, and children often attend shrines in suits or dresses.